Questionaire for Sir....

 

 

 

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know it has been a few days since I posted and I have been urged by my devoted one to post this questionnaire..  changed a bit so the questions would suit a sir rather than a submissive.  This was posted as questions for a submissive to answer in another Blogger, a submissive Blogger named Kenzie.    It was my submissive's idea to change this questionnaire where the questions would come from a Sir's point of view so here we go...

 

 

 

1.  Was there a certain event in your life that sparked the spanking interest ?

 

the answer.. for those of you who don't know lies in the post I did .. Dominance revealed.    I basically saw this couple she was leading him with a choker chain and I commented that I would be damned if a woman ever led me around like that.. i would take that chain away from her and whip her ass with it....

 

?.  What does my submissive call her master ( ME ) ??

 

 My Sir...

 

 

3. What do I call my submissive ?

 

My devoted one...

 

 

4. We are building a big spanker style bon fire... what implement would i let her throw in the fire ??

 

I would not.. I would let her go break a switch out of a tree only to swat her ass with it once before I allowed to toss it into the fire.

 

 

5. We are all familiar with punishments.. spanking, corner time, ice,( read my previous posts to understand that one).  what about rewards, if any would one allow or use as a reward ?

 

a reward, most times I allow her to cum at night sometimes I listen to her other times I don't, so that is pretty much her reward for being a good girl.. there have been times I have denied that though...

 

 

7.  What is something you would like to cross off the bucket list ?? (( ok folks do not be shy come on... you know you have some dark masochistic fantasy or some dark sadistic whipping fantasy you want to reveal.. DONT BE SHY...!!))

 

 

 Take her pants down, panties too,, and put her over my knee and whip dat ass the whole way through the pirates of the Caribbean ride at Disney World.

 

(( I know its an odd answer but that ride moves slow .. lots of good quality spanking time there...))

 

 

8. Someone comes to you and says they just started practicing domestic discipline, what advice to you offer ??

 

 

Be creative, let your imagination guide you,  talk to your submissive and learn as you go, find out what makes the both of you tick and do not be afraid to try new things...  ((doms.. let me tell you from personal experience... ICE   yes ICE has many and numerous applications..... for both play time and punishment....))

 

9.  Where is the craziest place you have ever spanked someone ?

 

Going down the interstate, cruise control set on 80 at 2 am in the morning...

 

 

10. Spanking bucket list having been covered, what about a BDSM bucket list ?  what would you want to do in order to cross that one off ?  (( come on now.. no being shy here....))

 

I know it is a dark and twisted thought, but the use of ice and a 9 volt battery at the same time as either a punishment or for play time.. (( yeah that little rectangle battery you can hold to your tongue and feel that tingling sensation...  YUP  THAT IS THE ONE...))

 

 

11.  Is there a punishment you thought you would never try and yet tried and found effective ?

 

 

yup... I at first thought ice was cruel and unusual punishment.. BUT NOW... I KNOW IT IS VERY EFFECTIVE...

 

 

 

 

 

 

12. What is something you wish you had known before you started DD/TTWD ??

 

just how much more fun and liberating it is than being Vanilla...

 

13.  If she could take a break from just one rule for a week which one would it be ? 

 

GETTNG UP EARLY AND BEING ON TIME FOR WORK...

 

14.  Might be a no brainer, but if you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would it be for play or punishment ?

 

PLAY, DEFINITELY PLAY...

 

 

15.  If I messed up, would I ever allow my sub to spank me?  why or why not ?

 

ooo hard to say on that one,, don't think I would let her spank me.. although if the circumstances were right...

 

16.  What is my favorite form of aftercare ? 

 

caressing and snuggling while talking about it all....

 

17.  How was DD brought up to you or did you bring it up to your partner ??

 

oddly enough it was a mutual thingy.. she ask if I could handle her and I said I could take her over my knee and whip her ass... and there you have it...

 

18.  If you were limited to one implement from now on, what would it be ?

 

so many fun implements out there to choose from..i am leaning towards a wooden kitchen spoon...

 

(I know its not a spoon...)

 

 

 

19.  Do you have a favorite pair of panties for her to wear when you are spanking her,,, please describe them..?

 

 Not yet.. but I am sure I will in the very near future..

 

20.  So, since mind reading has not really been perfected yet, is there anything you want your submissive to know ?? come on   spill the beans.. or coffee .. or  Tennessee Honey  jack daniels over ice... lets have it..??

 

cant really think of anything that she doesn't know...maybe that she is the first one I have ever used ice on as for both play and punishment... she knows I love a good horror story..  knows that I love the older horror movies,, those guys had to bring real horror to the screen, they could not rely on props ...

 

((** BONUS --  Just for fun--  is there a picture you have of spanking that is your favorite?? lets see it....

 

 

 

(( par for the course.. I always put a funny or eye popper on the trail of the post and this time is no exception...   actually 2 good ones..))

 

 

(( yup even mannequins have to dig em out ever so often.....))

 

I do welcome all comments even the anonymous ones,, I hope you enjoyed it, and as I have been told, supposedly I am then first SIR to take this little quiz... hope you enjoy and I challenge other sirs to take it as well.  thank you kenzie for the original submissive quiz... 

 

until my next post, peace to you all, The Bishop ( B )

 



A treatise on Submission, II...

 

 

A TREATISE ON SUBMISSION, II

 

a struggle within

 

 

Greetings from the Bishop's chair....

 

      A submissive  must willingly give herself ( or himself ) freely and willingly to her ( or his ) master, as her ( or his ) master or mistress must accept the submissive freely as well.    If the ideals of trust can not be earned or solid in a relationship  and a submissive is not willing to let oneself go to her sir because she can not trust him fully, then what is the point of submission and dominance ?    
            
  Forgive the bluntness of this post I am rather upset while I am writing this,,, perhaps I should let sleeping dogs lay until I am calmed down, but when I am frustrated, typing seems to help.   She managed to get herself into a bit of trouble last night and, in so doing revealed something that she had been should I say hiding in a sense ?   What was disguised as an internal struggle to submit fully was revealed as a struggle to trust and so...I was already in a foul mood when she confronted me with this in quite a challenging way.. and it really threw me for a loop, and brought me back to this post, which I had started penning a good while back and decided to finish and post.  

(( as a side note, this was written for the most part in 2 parts last night and earlier today  9/9/13 so this proceeding paragraph was penned last night where the rest was penned today)) 

If a submissive can not find trust of her sir, then what is the point of submission ??

I am not saying I am innocent here, as things have unfolded in an odd way between us, and of course we are still on the slow road of recovery from the split of our relationship.   I do understand that I am her first real true Sir, and have been training her, even when she thought or thinks I am being hard on her or don't call her. there is a purpose to these events. ALSO, DID I MENTION OR HAVE YOU READ THAT WE ARE NEARLY 11 HOURS AWAY FROM EACH OTHER ????   THAT PUTS A SPIN ON THINGS THAT COULD MAKE A TRUE BISHOP CUSS OUT LOUD.

Despite the times of her balking against my rules, or flat out, direct disobedience against what I say, and having to work through the rough spots and still dole out punishments when needed that are meant to get her  attention. As she has learned one of my favorites, ( MOSTLY BECAUSE SHE HATES IT , BUT ALSO BECAUSE SHE HAS ADMITTED IT MAKES HER THINK CLEARLY)  is the corner. Through all the ruckus and rough spots,   I am still proud to call her my devoted one, and will continue to be proud.

 

Stress and strains of training a submissive can be trouble enough, and long distance puts a special one and a half twist with a pinch of sea salt into the mix that does not normally exist in a Dom and sub relationship.  As to the existence of trust, I understand that comes in time....  At times I wonder why I let myself get into a Dom/sub relationship that is long distance, things are and would be so much easier if we were closer together, but I do not regret the choice I have made and dared to walk in the road less traveled and have met a good woman, and when her head is on straight and she is not in a put up a fight or, only if it makes her feel warm and fuzzy mood about my rules,  and even then she is a good woman as well as a sub-still in training-  that will make a remarkable sub when our journey through the training stages is complete.

(( very soon, I will get to see her ass turn pink then red under my hand...))

 I always try to put a bit of side show humor or something that doesn't quite fit the bill and this post is no exception...  I almost fell out of my chair I was laughing so hard when it saw it....


In all things human, we must remember that we are human, and even though it is humbling to a master to be told that in truth we  are humans and nothing more, granted more dominant or alpha in nature, we are still all human.  The submissives that serve and love us, are human as well, even more so than most of those who live the vanilla life, because we open up from our own inner depths, revealing ourselves in total - the sub to their master and the master to their sub.

Until my next post,   Peace to you all....
 The Bishop ( B )

DOMINANCE RESTORED,,,,

 

 

 

(( I know this doesn't really fit the theme of the post, but I could not stop laughing at this when I was finding pictures to include in this post))


 

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

 

As my last post was about the demise of the relationship of The Bishop and My devoted one,  this post brings a ray of light to the issue.  We have been in communication, and have worked out a few issues that we faced and are working on giving our relationship another go.   We still have a long road ahead of us, but we are working to make it happen. 

 

 



I know full well what I posted in my last blog, Sede Vacante. about Bekah Jane and I ending our relationship, but after a week or so of being away we made contact with each other, and began to work through what had torn us apart.  There are some things that the both of us need to change and work on to make this relationship work out and we both are going to give it a go to see if it can work out.  So it would appear that myself, The Bishop, and my devoted one, Bekah jane have renewed our journey together and are slowly working it out to make it happen.

So, much to the relief of my devoted one, as well as myself, we have found a path to move forward around the temporary road block and are once again moving forward on our journey.  So it would appear that the Bishop has returned to blog land and will be making more posts concerning our journey.

 

(( I want her to glow like that every time,,,,))

 

 

(( could not help but include this one as well...  just really like this one...))

 

 

 

So, until my next blog, peace to you all....  The Bishop