Treatise on Submission III

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

A Sir's Perspective...

( the triple papal miter that was a gift to Pope Benedict XVI )

It has been a while since I posted a blog here to blog land so i figure today would be the day...   another in the series of treatises on submission... for your consideration ...

     A Sir (or Mistress)   is meant to guide his or her submissive in his or her life,   through thick and thin, good or bad,  protect and yes, even discipline or punish  when needed.   But I do prefer to get to know my submissive before I choose her.. and her to choose me.. before i collar her.    Of course the following picture  give a fairly good description of a submissive's duty and role...

Occasionally a sub needs to be set back to her balance.. by being disciplined, spankings or other punishments are in order to accomplish this..   of course the following picture gives a fair and accurate description ...   one of my favorite times.. aftercare...  those moments after a spanking or other punishment where a Sir shows a bit of a softer side,  showing that he does still have affection, love and care for his sub...

There is a difference between Discipline and Punishment, as this question was put to me by a sub in a conversation one night,   i thought for a second before giving this answer... 

Discipline becomes necessary when a submissive deliberately disobeys her Sir's orders....

Punishments becomes necessary when a sub fails to follow her Sir's orders  not  from direct disobedience,  but a simple failure to understand what was needed and failing to ask for clarity..

A mistress that helped me come fully into my role as a Master 14 years ago told me something that I have always strived  for...  " any Dom can make their sub kneel before them.. but a true Dom.. their sub will kneel before them of their own accord, whispering of their love and devotion to their Sir..."

( a true saying for all submissives or slaves)

It can be trying on a Dom or Mistress to train and guide a sub at times, especially if the sub is a fireball or hard to handle, or as I would term it, has more vinegar and sass in her arsenal than she knows what to do with.

Of course, when a Dom/sub relationship goes sour and they part company it can take a toll on the Master as well as the sub, after all, we are human and have hearts and souls as well.

 ( just invested in restraints for the arms like these... cant wait to use them....)

In all things human, we become in our lives what it was laid out for us to be, either Dominant, submissive , or vanilla... and we walk that path because it is what we are meant to be, nothing bad there just  as one would put it,  don't judge me because I sin differently than you do..

as always I try to end my posts with a funny or light  pic or two to get a good snicker or belly wrenching laugh  this post is no exception...

Until my next post which all things being fair should be shortly in coming as I have had the itch to write a bit here lately,

PEACE TO YOU ALL FROM THE BISHOP'S CHAIR...