The Bishop's Chair

THREE.....

Greetings from the Bishop's chair ...  

(Simply love this Orthodox Mitre...)

Yes, i know the chair has been empty for faaar too long, and this latest rant, comes from an unexpected source, but might stir the last blog post the Bishop posts here PERMANENTLY ???

( as you might have guessed by now.... The Bishop not happy, yeah  I probably looked like this when I learned of the incident)

Possibly exploring the means ... anxious yet calm--- then BOOM it hits a double fist pounding  to learn of a 3 some, an oh , what if I told you....    excuse me...?   You did what ...?  and then try to rub it in that she did it  trying to smooth it over as a .. hypothetical ... then it got out of hand   .... ( but if one is possibly wanting to get in the saddle, or in this case a collar... why bring it up at all ? or better yet, why allow oneself to get involved in that to begin with ??) a never expected... things got out of hand... from one I never expected it to come from ... and now  I NEED A VACATION ....A NICE LONG QUIET VACATION AWAY FROM EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING...

(what it might have looked like if she were within striking distance of me... or if she tried to run....)

Do I really want to stay in my realm of a Dom and continue or do I just hang up the cuffs and blindfolds, lock the war chest, break the key and walk away from it all?  

( even though it is summer,  the path to the collar may look like this for a while for those brave enough to try it ....)

Yes, the Seal, Vacant yet again...   indefinitely perhaps? 

in all things human. we must remember  that we are human and as humans we sometimes find that our lives take twists and turns and most times, they are unexpected.  I can not say for now, if this is the end of the Bishop or the path of the Dom for me,   maybe a new beginning to an old road ...   Two roads diverged in a yellow wood... and I, I stood there  wandering which road to take..  the one  well trodden... or the one overgrown ...

Blessings and Peace to you all from the Chair of the Bishop,   as always comments are welcomed... even the anonymous ones...

Until next time...??

Patience, time passing , and a new Collar......

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair 

(Salutem ab Episcopis sella)

I realize it has been many moons since I have posted a blog and it has been too long in coming.   Things have been a roller coaster since my last post but I will strive to bring you all up to speed.

( the seal, vacant-  Latin term used to show a vacant bishop's chair or position)

(I could only wish i owned a bishop's mitre like this one... so Beautiful)

After taking a brief, but much needed sabbatical after the last incident, which was desperately needed, i returned to find myself working with another sub, a long story which honestly, i can not bring myself to speak of here.  Perhaps in the near future I might mention the nightmare that became.  But once again, the Bishop patiently waits for a sub. 

Most of you are aware of the last sub I trained  mentioned in a previous blog,  lies deceit and farewell...  there have been 2 since then to enter my training and  guidance,  one chose to hide the fact she had been married and  planned to leave her family after she had been trained.. that ended abruptly ...
THE last sub had more issues than Bufford Pusser had stitches and worked and worried herself into a knot... out of respect and honesty I will simply say no more on that.

In the 14 years time, i never thought it would be this difficult to find a faithful submissive, yet,  it has not happened.   I have proceeded in finding however, a new collar, which patiently awaits a sub who can prove herself worthy of the right to wear the collar.  I pride myself in being a patient Dominant, and wait  for a submissive to prove she has what it takes to earn the right to kneel and have the collar  locked in place around her neck.  It will bear with it a pendant bearing my mark  a wolf's paw with a human hand print in the large pad, and engraved on the back  " My Sir's Property" and the date she will be collared.

In all matters Human, we must keep in mind we are human and have hearts and souls about us.  Some choose to ignore this issue and struggle in an eternal fight trying to be balanced.  Others wear their hearts on their sleeves and trample the earth paying never-mind. Those who choose to let their hearts and minds rule their lives find inner peace and guidance when all else fails.  No matter the station in life--  vanilla, submissive or Dominant, we are who we are and what life chooses us to be-  live your life, walk the path you are given and never choose the same path that everyone else has walked...  

Two Roads Diverged in a yellow wood,  and I , I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference,,,,

( forgive me, I should know the author of this poem...  Robert Frost I think ??)

( and for those of you who know me I post a funny at the end of my blog... ) 

until  my next post comes forth, peace to you all from the chair of the Bishop,  all comments are welcomed....

LIES, DECEIT, ANDA FAREWELL.....

 

A Deliberate and Angry Rant..

 

 

This post is exactly what the title implies.. for those of you who are still reading my blog, this is something i dont normally do... but MY FURY IS WELL FOUNDED AND CAUSED BY, LIES AND DECEIT...

 

 

(THIS IS MORE ALONG MY THOUGHTS ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED...)

 

 

 

( me when i read her blog posts....)

 

I met and started training a  woman who desired to be a submissive as we progressed we learnede quite a bit about each other.  Things changed, she learned rapidly, which  impresses me.   As things progressed I did have feelings for her, yet, as some events in the past have taught me,  dont just give your heart away, and be even more cautious about  letting your emotions show.

 

As time progressed in her training, she began to beg me to help her with an issue, and as I began my reserch into that issue, I Discovered several things about that which I honestly did not care for and thought were rather disturbing even one Issue DISGUSTINGLY BLASPHEMOUS TO THE CHRISTIAN CHURCH WORLD WIDE. 

 

 I WILL DISCUSS THOSE ISSUES IN ANOTHER BLOG THAT WILL BE COMING VERY SHORTLY.

(( AGAIN , I HATE BEING POLITICALLY CORRECT... AND IF YOU EASILY GET OFFENDED ABOUT RELIGIOUS SUBJECTS THIS NEXT POSTING SHOULD REALLY SCRAMBLE YOUR EGGS AND BURN YOUR BACON EXTRA CRISPY...)

 

To be fair and balanced in my blog, I did acquire a new job that had me working from the mid afternoon to midnight which meant that our talking time was greatly reduced.   During the day time i was either sleeping,  working around the home, or  doing things for my folks. 

 

She informs me that we needed to talk....  one of her ex boyfriends decided he wanted her back, and from hearing her talk and seeing her expressions on her face,  it was obvious she was struggling with this.   I began to question her posts in her blog and the comments that she made, claiming that she LOVED ME...  YET, I DONT THINK SHE DID..   THE OLD SAYING WEARING YOUR FEELINGS ON YOUR SLEEVE..   So, I began to back away,   from reading her posts in her blog it was readily obvious SHE WAS NOT IN LOVE.. DID NOT LOVE, AND WAS CONSIDERING  GOING TO HER EX....  OR RATHER EITHER ONE OF THEM....

 

( YOU CAN FIND HER BLOG HERE  AND READ FOR YOURSELF.. WHAT I AM SPEAKING OF...http://submissive34533.blogspot.com/  ))  TO JUDGE FOR YOURSELVES IF WHAT I SAY IS TRUE.

 

So she posted in her blog, a rant about ending it with me...    and YES I READ THE BLOG WITHOUT KNOWING SHE HAD ENDED IT...

 

So,  a few days progressed, she actually sent a text, telling me we needed to talk  yada yada yada... i raked her over the coals letting her know that I was not happy about anything and that basically i will not be Run over or topped from the bottom.  after a few more days i sent her a series of texts  ending it from my side and telling her, not to act like I never existed... BUT FOR HER TO FORGET I EXISTED...

 

AS FAR AS HER TRAINING WAS CONCERNED, SHE THANKED ME FOR ALL OF IT.. YET SHE LEARNED ONLY THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG... SHE LEARNED NOTHING ABOUT RESPECT AND TRUE SUBMISSION..   I DID COMMENT TO HER THAT HER TRAINING WAS GOING FAST, YET SHE JUST DIDNT GET IT...  NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT PARTS.. 

 

Of  Course,  she is now talking about 777... her new man.. already jumping out of the skillet and into the fire. with an untested and unfired newbie dom...   good bye and good luck with that... hope it works..

 

 

( for those of you who know me and know my previous posts, i always try to throw in a funny or two...  although from her blog postings it could also be seen from this point of view......

 

 

From my place in the Bishop's Chair,  i write this sombering and straight forward posting,  frustrated and back to square one.  As in all things human, we learn from our mistakes, and we learn to move forward.  I will continue posting blog posts, and  move forward in my quest of life itself.

 

 

( and no ,I could only wish I had a chair like this to sit in at home...)

 

As always Peace to you all, any and all comments are welcomed... until my next post...  ( B )



Treatise on Submission III

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

A Sir's Perspective...

( the triple papal miter that was a gift to Pope Benedict XVI )

It has been a while since I posted a blog here to blog land so i figure today would be the day...   another in the series of treatises on submission... for your consideration ...

     A Sir (or Mistress)   is meant to guide his or her submissive in his or her life,   through thick and thin, good or bad,  protect and yes, even discipline or punish  when needed.   But I do prefer to get to know my submissive before I choose her.. and her to choose me.. before i collar her.    Of course the following picture  give a fairly good description of a submissive's duty and role...

Occasionally a sub needs to be set back to her balance.. by being disciplined, spankings or other punishments are in order to accomplish this..   of course the following picture gives a fair and accurate description ...   one of my favorite times.. aftercare...  those moments after a spanking or other punishment where a Sir shows a bit of a softer side,  showing that he does still have affection, love and care for his sub...

There is a difference between Discipline and Punishment, as this question was put to me by a sub in a conversation one night,   i thought for a second before giving this answer... 

Discipline becomes necessary when a submissive deliberately disobeys her Sir's orders....

Punishments becomes necessary when a sub fails to follow her Sir's orders  not  from direct disobedience,  but a simple failure to understand what was needed and failing to ask for clarity..

A mistress that helped me come fully into my role as a Master 14 years ago told me something that I have always strived  for...  " any Dom can make their sub kneel before them.. but a true Dom.. their sub will kneel before them of their own accord, whispering of their love and devotion to their Sir..."

( a true saying for all submissives or slaves)

It can be trying on a Dom or Mistress to train and guide a sub at times, especially if the sub is a fireball or hard to handle, or as I would term it, has more vinegar and sass in her arsenal than she knows what to do with.

Of course, when a Dom/sub relationship goes sour and they part company it can take a toll on the Master as well as the sub, after all, we are human and have hearts and souls as well.

 ( just invested in restraints for the arms like these... cant wait to use them....)

In all things human, we become in our lives what it was laid out for us to be, either Dominant, submissive , or vanilla... and we walk that path because it is what we are meant to be, nothing bad there just  as one would put it,  don't judge me because I sin differently than you do..

as always I try to end my posts with a funny or light  pic or two to get a good snicker or belly wrenching laugh  this post is no exception...

Until my next post which all things being fair should be shortly in coming as I have had the itch to write a bit here lately,

PEACE TO YOU ALL FROM THE BISHOP'S CHAIR...

Return of the Bishop...

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

 
I know it has been long days since I last posted, and yes, as she posted, it is ended, and perhaps maybe for the best.  I would like to point out, that my truck did break down on the way to see her, and she pitched an ever loving fit about it.  I could not find the parts I needed to make the necessary repairs, and had to get the truck towed home.  Despite what she said, that I didn't care enough, or anything else of that nature, I did.  Just that I chose to ensure that my truck could be running again Monday morning, rather than have to possibly walk to work... so the next picture in the blog, again, Sede, Vacante. again comes into play... 
 

 

Even though the Bishop's chair may appear to have been vacant, I have been rather busy, being tied up with work, and the usual day to day dealings as they happen, and I finally decided to start blogging again,  and share a few mind sets and vent a bit on different subjects as they strike me, I am also working on my next in the series of Treatise on Submission... which I should have generated for your reading pleasure in the near future.

 
This is the true statement that should and does ring true for the Bishop. I will continue to hold to the truths of this pervious picture... till I reach the point where I am ready to hang up the shackles, and ice cubes and retire from living as a Sir.   Until then, life will continue to unfold, as it is meant to be and as it will, despite how hard we try or want to hold back the hands of time, it will proceed.

 

( I had to include a few pictures like this....)

 

As Humans, no matter what in life we are called to be,  Dominant, Submissive, or vanilla, we are all Human.  Capable of all manner of thoughts and feelings.  At a point in our lives, we often times realize that things made a rough journey all that much more difficult, and  improvising had to be done with such a long distance relationship, and in fact such a long distance made it that much more difficult to work through as long distance makes its own special set of rules and difficulties, and being in a Dom/sub relationship made it even more difficult.  So, chalk it up to a loss and learn from the mistakes that were made, and move forward in life, which is exactly what I am doing.  So, for any fans of the Bishop's writings, I have returned to blog land and will be making posts on different things. 

( I had to throw in a couple pictures at the end, this is one saying of the Marquis, and I find it very, very true.)

( of course, a true saying for any submissive to her Sir...)


And, for those of you who have come to expect it from my blogs, I leave a funny picture to lighten things up....
 

 

 

As always, I welcome comments and thoughts from anyone who reads this or any blog post I have  in this blog page.  I welcome you, if you have only read this one, to read the other posts written from The Bishop's Chair.... Peace to you all until my next post...

Questionaire for Sir....

 

 

 

Greetings from the Bishop's Chair...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know it has been a few days since I posted and I have been urged by my devoted one to post this questionnaire..  changed a bit so the questions would suit a sir rather than a submissive.  This was posted as questions for a submissive to answer in another Blogger, a submissive Blogger named Kenzie.    It was my submissive's idea to change this questionnaire where the questions would come from a Sir's point of view so here we go...

 

 

 

1.  Was there a certain event in your life that sparked the spanking interest ?

 

the answer.. for those of you who don't know lies in the post I did .. Dominance revealed.    I basically saw this couple she was leading him with a choker chain and I commented that I would be damned if a woman ever led me around like that.. i would take that chain away from her and whip her ass with it....

 

?.  What does my submissive call her master ( ME ) ??

 

 My Sir...

 

 

3. What do I call my submissive ?

 

My devoted one...

 

 

4. We are building a big spanker style bon fire... what implement would i let her throw in the fire ??

 

I would not.. I would let her go break a switch out of a tree only to swat her ass with it once before I allowed to toss it into the fire.

 

 

5. We are all familiar with punishments.. spanking, corner time, ice,( read my previous posts to understand that one).  what about rewards, if any would one allow or use as a reward ?

 

a reward, most times I allow her to cum at night sometimes I listen to her other times I don't, so that is pretty much her reward for being a good girl.. there have been times I have denied that though...

 

 

7.  What is something you would like to cross off the bucket list ?? (( ok folks do not be shy come on... you know you have some dark masochistic fantasy or some dark sadistic whipping fantasy you want to reveal.. DONT BE SHY...!!))

 

 

 Take her pants down, panties too,, and put her over my knee and whip dat ass the whole way through the pirates of the Caribbean ride at Disney World.

 

(( I know its an odd answer but that ride moves slow .. lots of good quality spanking time there...))

 

 

8. Someone comes to you and says they just started practicing domestic discipline, what advice to you offer ??

 

 

Be creative, let your imagination guide you,  talk to your submissive and learn as you go, find out what makes the both of you tick and do not be afraid to try new things...  ((doms.. let me tell you from personal experience... ICE   yes ICE has many and numerous applications..... for both play time and punishment....))

 

9.  Where is the craziest place you have ever spanked someone ?

 

Going down the interstate, cruise control set on 80 at 2 am in the morning...

 

 

10. Spanking bucket list having been covered, what about a BDSM bucket list ?  what would you want to do in order to cross that one off ?  (( come on now.. no being shy here....))

 

I know it is a dark and twisted thought, but the use of ice and a 9 volt battery at the same time as either a punishment or for play time.. (( yeah that little rectangle battery you can hold to your tongue and feel that tingling sensation...  YUP  THAT IS THE ONE...))

 

 

11.  Is there a punishment you thought you would never try and yet tried and found effective ?

 

 

yup... I at first thought ice was cruel and unusual punishment.. BUT NOW... I KNOW IT IS VERY EFFECTIVE...

 

 

 

 

 

 

12. What is something you wish you had known before you started DD/TTWD ??

 

just how much more fun and liberating it is than being Vanilla...

 

13.  If she could take a break from just one rule for a week which one would it be ? 

 

GETTNG UP EARLY AND BEING ON TIME FOR WORK...

 

14.  Might be a no brainer, but if you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would it be for play or punishment ?

 

PLAY, DEFINITELY PLAY...

 

 

15.  If I messed up, would I ever allow my sub to spank me?  why or why not ?

 

ooo hard to say on that one,, don't think I would let her spank me.. although if the circumstances were right...

 

16.  What is my favorite form of aftercare ? 

 

caressing and snuggling while talking about it all....

 

17.  How was DD brought up to you or did you bring it up to your partner ??

 

oddly enough it was a mutual thingy.. she ask if I could handle her and I said I could take her over my knee and whip her ass... and there you have it...

 

18.  If you were limited to one implement from now on, what would it be ?

 

so many fun implements out there to choose from..i am leaning towards a wooden kitchen spoon...

 

(I know its not a spoon...)

 

 

 

19.  Do you have a favorite pair of panties for her to wear when you are spanking her,,, please describe them..?

 

 Not yet.. but I am sure I will in the very near future..

 

20.  So, since mind reading has not really been perfected yet, is there anything you want your submissive to know ?? come on   spill the beans.. or coffee .. or  Tennessee Honey  jack daniels over ice... lets have it..??

 

cant really think of anything that she doesn't know...maybe that she is the first one I have ever used ice on as for both play and punishment... she knows I love a good horror story..  knows that I love the older horror movies,, those guys had to bring real horror to the screen, they could not rely on props ...

 

((** BONUS --  Just for fun--  is there a picture you have of spanking that is your favorite?? lets see it....

 

 

 

(( par for the course.. I always put a funny or eye popper on the trail of the post and this time is no exception...   actually 2 good ones..))

 

 

(( yup even mannequins have to dig em out ever so often.....))

 

I do welcome all comments even the anonymous ones,, I hope you enjoyed it, and as I have been told, supposedly I am then first SIR to take this little quiz... hope you enjoy and I challenge other sirs to take it as well.  thank you kenzie for the original submissive quiz... 

 

until my next post, peace to you all, The Bishop ( B )

 



A treatise on Submission, II...

 

 

A TREATISE ON SUBMISSION, II

 

a struggle within

 

 

Greetings from the Bishop's chair....

 

      A submissive  must willingly give herself ( or himself ) freely and willingly to her ( or his ) master, as her ( or his ) master or mistress must accept the submissive freely as well.    If the ideals of trust can not be earned or solid in a relationship  and a submissive is not willing to let oneself go to her sir because she can not trust him fully, then what is the point of submission and dominance ?    
            
  Forgive the bluntness of this post I am rather upset while I am writing this,,, perhaps I should let sleeping dogs lay until I am calmed down, but when I am frustrated, typing seems to help.   She managed to get herself into a bit of trouble last night and, in so doing revealed something that she had been should I say hiding in a sense ?   What was disguised as an internal struggle to submit fully was revealed as a struggle to trust and so...I was already in a foul mood when she confronted me with this in quite a challenging way.. and it really threw me for a loop, and brought me back to this post, which I had started penning a good while back and decided to finish and post.  

(( as a side note, this was written for the most part in 2 parts last night and earlier today  9/9/13 so this proceeding paragraph was penned last night where the rest was penned today)) 

If a submissive can not find trust of her sir, then what is the point of submission ??

I am not saying I am innocent here, as things have unfolded in an odd way between us, and of course we are still on the slow road of recovery from the split of our relationship.   I do understand that I am her first real true Sir, and have been training her, even when she thought or thinks I am being hard on her or don't call her. there is a purpose to these events. ALSO, DID I MENTION OR HAVE YOU READ THAT WE ARE NEARLY 11 HOURS AWAY FROM EACH OTHER ????   THAT PUTS A SPIN ON THINGS THAT COULD MAKE A TRUE BISHOP CUSS OUT LOUD.

Despite the times of her balking against my rules, or flat out, direct disobedience against what I say, and having to work through the rough spots and still dole out punishments when needed that are meant to get her  attention. As she has learned one of my favorites, ( MOSTLY BECAUSE SHE HATES IT , BUT ALSO BECAUSE SHE HAS ADMITTED IT MAKES HER THINK CLEARLY)  is the corner. Through all the ruckus and rough spots,   I am still proud to call her my devoted one, and will continue to be proud.

 

Stress and strains of training a submissive can be trouble enough, and long distance puts a special one and a half twist with a pinch of sea salt into the mix that does not normally exist in a Dom and sub relationship.  As to the existence of trust, I understand that comes in time....  At times I wonder why I let myself get into a Dom/sub relationship that is long distance, things are and would be so much easier if we were closer together, but I do not regret the choice I have made and dared to walk in the road less traveled and have met a good woman, and when her head is on straight and she is not in a put up a fight or, only if it makes her feel warm and fuzzy mood about my rules,  and even then she is a good woman as well as a sub-still in training-  that will make a remarkable sub when our journey through the training stages is complete.

(( very soon, I will get to see her ass turn pink then red under my hand...))

 I always try to put a bit of side show humor or something that doesn't quite fit the bill and this post is no exception...  I almost fell out of my chair I was laughing so hard when it saw it....


In all things human, we must remember that we are human, and even though it is humbling to a master to be told that in truth we  are humans and nothing more, granted more dominant or alpha in nature, we are still all human.  The submissives that serve and love us, are human as well, even more so than most of those who live the vanilla life, because we open up from our own inner depths, revealing ourselves in total - the sub to their master and the master to their sub.

Until my next post,   Peace to you all....
 The Bishop ( B )